So forgiveness pre-requires understanding the mistakes of the past? here hear re this opposing this me-first, America-first, white-first, male-first approach>…
Lesson 17: Stranger
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I think in most aspects of life people like the comfortable, lament change, and yearn for the “good old days” to varying degrees. But I think new teachings and ethics present a particular issue in the area of faith.
There is a certain confidence, power, and agency that comes from thinking that your Church has had it right for hundreds if not thousands of years, that you have it right now, and if you share your testimony with your neighbor or child and take them to your Church than they’ll have it right too.
When your understanding is that you have had it wrong, than who are you to testify or share your thinking with anyone? If your Church has had it wrong for hundreds if not thousands of years than why should you listen to it much less bring someone else?
While I think one can have a personal relationship with Christ despite ongoing change and confusion, it does make it more complicated, and creates a tongue tying stumbling block to evangelism and fellowship that at least I haven’t been able to really sort out.
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Today’s lesson touched me most because my Church (as you know well) is currently going through the struggle between those forces for 21st century change and the strong drag of many in the hierarchy who see change almost as an evil. It causes American Sisters a great deal of pain, but they aren’t the only ones. Change is not always an evil, as we all know, but when it comes to religious tradition, we occasionally equate change in the tradition as rewriting (instead of re-visioning) Scripture.
My weekend at Kirkridge last fall with Michael Morwood pushed me into a lot of new thinking about Jesus and the Church, both of which I love. There has to be room in all churches for new thinking. I vividly remember when I was a young novice and newly professed Sister in my former community going through the process asked of us by Vatican II: look at all your customs and Holy Rules and ask if they have roots in Scripture and are not perhaps merely “the way we have always done it without much reflection.”
So much changed–habits were modified, our ability to interact with the laity, the kinds of ministry we participated in, and a host of other changes. Small things and large fell by the wayside, but to say it wasn’t often painful for Sisters would be naive. There was anger, feelings of having “lost” our mission and way–but after years most of us know that the process was necessary. I offer that the Church as a whole needs that same reflection-but it can’t just be the bishops doing the reflection. All Sisters were involved because the results would affect all. Would that the Pope next to be beatified (aarrgghh) had listened to the commission regarding birth control. He decided to operate on fear that the hierarchy voiced: “This will shake the faith of the faithful in other church disciplines.” Well, yes, they were right–but the real result is that thousands of Catholics simply followed their consciences (if they didn’t leave the Church) and practiced it. And the end result: they gave other Vatican decrees less authority.
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An extremely timely topic. Thanks, Fritz!
yes we need to forgive our leaders yet make sure they do the right thing – which they aren’t.
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