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Lesson 18: So Where is the Basis for Ethics Found?

Ethical ConversationI began suggesting people often claim they go to Church to find a basis for ethics. Public figures on television often try to show their morality by reporting, “I grew up in Church.”

I then suggested these people are often speaking of learning laws that are taught at Church, laws they can take with them after they have stopped participating in worship.

I am inclined to think what is really happening, albeit unwittingly, is these people might learn what it is to be ethical, because they have been among good people who live ethically. They might come away with laws that are helpful, but even more important they come away with attitudes and habits of the heart that contribute to healthy living.

Cognitive studies and evolutionary theories might maintain ethical laws, such as the Golden Rule, are products of human development as people learned to survive best by co-operating in this manner. However, the rules they cite are hardly a set of laws, just general principles. And they do not necessarily point to these being inherent and given in human nature.

Instead, they indicate the basis of ethics is found in community, when at least two people address one another as persons. Ethics begin with the accountability and vulnerability found in community. In some sense, ethics is the terms of engagement when people take responsibility for their actions. It depends on seeing oneself and the other as persons.

But is that the only basis found in the Church community? And can these rules of engagement be taken away whole when one leaves the community?

Many, including myself, believe the basis of ethics found at Church always includes a minimum of three persons, the third being God. The Church has insisted over the ages that God must be regarded as a Person. It is the nature of God presented in the scriptures, the explanation of the Trinity forged in the early Church, and the Real Presence promised in the Means of Grace. God promises to be present among his people, to speak to them as a Person in the Word and to share their lives as a Person in the Sacraments.

At its best, the Church never bases ethics on abstract principles or general laws. Instead the basis is found in words spoken between persons, and sometimes these are commands.

Concordia expressed this when she suggested the unchanging nature of God is found in the image of the caring, loving Good Shepherd. Ethics then are based ultimately on the relationship with that Person. The terms of engagement might change according to the needs of the situation, but the Person remains the same.

Of course, that brings up the question of whether those who have left the Church really can take a Christian ethic with them. That is not to say those outside the Church have no basis for an ethical life. But it is to say a Christian ethic is different than this. It depends on participating in the Christian community. It also means if this society is to learn again how to share their stories and work toward a common good, those engaged must recognize the personhood of each speaker.

Lesson 9: Church is Not a Family of Families

A Gathered FamilyLast week I used the model of family for Church. After all Jesus did speak of God as father and others as our brothers and sisters. And the early Church did live in a lifestyle we associate with the family.

However, when I spoke of extending the family, I came mighty close to falling into one of the Church’s present traps. It hardly goes with Jesus saying his message will bust up families, setting parents against children.

It also lets out all those people who live alone. I was reminded of that last week when TIME magazine listed “LIVING ALONE IS THE NEW NORM” as the first of its “10 IDEAS THAT ARE CHANGING YOUR LIFE.” That caused me to reflect on how many of our participants live alone. For instance, when I recently promoted taking time to eat with your family, many responded they do not live with family.

Yet the Church regularly speaks of herself as the family of families and acts as if her primary calling is to champion family values. The result is she constantly teaches about things associated with the biological family, such as contraception, abortion, sexuality, and gender; and seldom about what Jesus said about society, such as peace and justice.

The Church is not an extension of the nuclear family but rather a community where anyone can share food, words, celebrations, failures, and anything else we usually associate with families. It is a group in which we forget titles, give according to our means, offer to others according to their needs, and co-operate rather than compete. That has always been important and is even more now when some studies report as many as 40% of American society have no one with whom they can share these things. Robert Putnam in Bowling Alone reports the Church is one of the last places this happens.

I don’t know about you, but a great part of my worship is watching and participating in just these things: watching parents hug children, young adults assist the elderly, widows share pictures of their grandchildren’s marriages, friends kiss at the Peace; and participating by hugging those in trouble, offering instruction to those needing guidance, asking for advice, and listening as people report what they have been doing and intend to do. Church is a place where we can all eat together. I’ll get back to that next week.